Finding power in a situation where I had none
By JOHN JACOBS | May 3, 2016It was late October 2015. I was at an open bar and drank too much because I was depressed and thought it’d help. It didn’t. I got drunk enough that I stumbled outside to catch some air and blacked out. I regained partial consciousness in a car to a stranger sexually assaulting me. I’m a guy and he was a guy too. I was too drunk to really understand what was happening to me at the time, but the assailant wasn’t. The guy was sober enough to lead me to his car, sober enough to take my pants off, sober enough to drive. Sober enough to know better.