Let’s keep this intro short and simple: it’s about sex. Below are, in my opinion, five of the easiest and most well-known sex positions inexperienced partners can do—and the extra Tips and Tricks that can be done to spice up their lives for a spicier orgasm.
Missionary
There are different variations of missionary, but the two most common—and best—are classic laying down and standing. This simple, but spectacular, position brings about the perfect use of intimacy but can be spiced up to satisfy all the naughty people out there.
Classic
How to do it: Both partners are lying down, and on the bottom, we have the receiver with the giver (or in other words the person that’s inserting) on top facing each other. The receiver's legs are open for the giver to be able to insert themselves.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- If flexible enough, the giver lifts up and hold up the receiver’s legs, almost near their head
- Be careful, communicate with your partner to see if they are comfortable with it.
- If not both legs, try only one leg up. It can stimulate the same angle and gives the receiver's body an easier time.
Standing
How to do it: Now, with standing missionary positions, the giver is standing on the edge of the flat surface, while the receiver is lying down on a flat surface.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- We can have the receiver's legs on top of the giver’s shoulders.
- Two legs on one side too.
- Giver lifting the receiver's hips (which needs a lot of muscle honestly) allowing more access and rough housing for all my deviants out there.
Missionary allows stimulation of either clitoris or penis for the receiver. It creates a more intimate environment as you can look into one another’s eyes (if you’re into that because eye contact can be too scary for some) or it can allow the pleasure of seeing your partner come, which is one of the best views ever.
Cuddling
Onto the next favorite position, we have the immaculate cuddling position. Like in the name, it’s cuddling with your partner while also wrecking some guts (or getting your guts wrecked).
How to do it: The giver is behind the receiver, basically back to chest, and enters from behind them.
For this position, there is usually some rearranging happening to make sure that the angle is right, especially if there is a similar height between the two partners so remember if there is a will, there is a way.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- The receiver can put their leg up in this position, with the giver hoisting it up for them if they want, and can rub the clitoris or stroke the penis for extra stimulation for the receiver.
- Allows for easy peasy dirty talk in the receiver's ear and safe choking if one is into that.
- Don’t worry, if you don’t know what to say in those steamy moments, there's an article in the future dedicated just to that, my little divas *wink*.
Side Missionary with a twist
We’re mixing it up now—You don’t have to do just either missionary or the cuddling position, you can do both.
How to do it: The receiver is on their side, like in a regular cuddling position, but the giver is on top as if it is a regular missionary position. It might take some time to understand the idea, and weird, but try it because it hits all the right angles.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- If the receiver is flexible enough, bring their leg up to the giver's nearest shoulder like how it would be in a regular missionary, like an L-shaped position. It would be better for g-spot hitting and might even get the giver to give a small peck to an unknown erogenous zone—the ankle.
Backshots/Doggy
We have another classical position that does wonders for all. Now it can be a little… scary to do considering that someone is seeing your glory hole, but hey, if you have a nice ass then you’re doing the other person a big favor.
How to do it: The receiver is on the bed, arched over on their hands and knees, with their ass up and their face down, and the giver is behind them, either standing or on the bed on their knees, ready to penetrate.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- To switch it up, have the giver not move as much, and for lack of a better phrase, have the receiver “throw it back” on them.
- Get a bit kinkier with some nice spanks. You never know how kinky someone is until you’re in that position with them.
- You can even take it further by doing backshots over a flat surface, or any surface really, all one gotta do is bend over and you got it.
Now the last position is for the lazy givers out there who don't want to do as much work. We have the last- but definitely not the least- the great ole riding position.
Riding
Now this position can be a bit controversial considering all the pillow princesses of the world have to actually get up and do some work. However, it can be fun if both parties make sure that they are comfortable doing it. Me personally…I’m too damn lazy. This position allows for G-spot stimulation, eye contact, and hands to freely roam but also more control for the receiver.
How to do it: The giver is laying flat, or sitting down, allowing the receiver to get on top of them and straddle them, facing their partner. The term riding comes from the idea of moving up and down and side to side as if riding a horse.
Extra Tips and Tricks
- If on the bed, make sure for extra leverage as the receiver, put yourself into a squat with feet planted on the bed—it also gives a great view for the giver.
- Don’t just bounce, try out different methods of going about it like grinding down, slowly going up and down, and see what works for you guys.
- The giver can also have some action too. They can have their hands on the waist, make sure to have some hands roaming around and help their partner out with the heavy lifting.
Remember to take it slow and easy, these can’t be seen as enjoyable if you don’t learn what you or your partner like. Some like it rougher, others gentler. A few like silent sex while others want to be heard from the mountaintops. Make sure to communicate and practice safe sex no matter what and, most importantly, have fun.
That’s all for now my sex deviants, stay spicy and love you always,
D.Va Whispers
Photo: Ryan Hagen | UB Athletics
